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How to Create an Effective Roommate Profile

Before posting a roommate needed listing on a totally free roommate service, establish your ideal list of things you want and don’t want in a roommate. It’s easy enough to find people nearby with a free person finder, but sharing housing involves much more than signing free roommate agreements and dividing living expenses. To insure the arrangement is as comfortable as possible for everyone, it’s best to evaluate your options realistically even before you consider interviewing potential roommates, let along having someone move in with you.

Make a list

To clarify what qualities you want before posting a roommate needed listing, take the time to write out a list. Putting pen to paper forces you to think in depth and work out your priorities.

When putting together the list, consider the following :

Gender – Decide whether or not this is an issue for you. Realistically consider if you are comfortable with a roommate of the opposite sex or if you prefer to share housing with someone of your own gender. Whatever your feelings on this issue, it really is the most basic roommate quality you should be clear on before proceeding.

Personal habits – This may sound like a pretty small matter, but more than a few living arrangements have self-destructed over such mundane things as cleaning habits, sleep schedules or vague housemate rules.

Be honest about your own habits. Are you a neat freak or is your definition of clean hard to pin down? Are you an early riser or does your day begin when the sun goes down? Are you comfortable sharing possessions and food or is your stuff yours alone? At this point, think not only of what you want in roomie, but what type of person would feel so comfortable with your personal habits that you could agree upon a list of housemate rules?

Personality – While a free person finder may contain multiple profiles of people with “a great sense of humor”, there is more to consider. You don’t have to be best friends with a roommate, but think about the type of temperament you are most comfortable being around.

Check it twice

While working up a list is important, look it over one last time before making a roommate needed listing or interviewing potential roommates. You want to make sure your list describes the roomie you want, but is not so rigid that it excludes someone who could be a good fit.

It is not necessary to include every item from a completed list in your roommate needed posting. Instead, use it as a guideline for you ad and again when you are ready to begin interviewing potential roommates.

Losing Your Virginity – A Girl’s Guide To The First Time

If you are reading this, and fit the situation, then the subject is already a consideration on your mind.

You may have read something on the subject, spoken to a girlfriend who has passed through the experience recently, and heard about it in school. We hope to help you here, with a short guide. It is for you.

First of all, you must feel it is the correct thing to do. You must NOT be pressured into it, or the experience will fail to bring you the pleasure and good memories you expect and deserve. You are in charge of your life and body. You must really feel ready for it.

If you have been masturbating, you probably had clitoral orgasm, so you know what is possible in terms of feelings. You must also, know your own anatomy.

You know you have some outer lips that cover the vulva, and some inner lips which are very flexible. If your hymen is intact, you are also going to tear that, with the accompanying sensations and bleeding. Find out.

In the second consideration, do not have sex if you have over-drunk alcohol. You can become drunk and lose a great deal of your judgment after even one drink.

The third consideration is INSISTING on the use of a condom with your partner. The reasons for this are well known, and certainly there is no excuse for not using it. You must be protected. This is a health concern, a very good way to prevent conception, and generally a good idea as it will help to slow down your partner by desensitizing him a bit.

So to begin.

You cannot have too much foreplay. This should take the form of mutual kissing, erotic massaging, exploring each other’s bodies, seeing where each of you are sensitive and have erogenous spots. Don’t rush. It will be over soon enough as it is.

All the while as you have foreplay, your womb will be producing the all important moisture that is required. Believe us, the wetter the better. You cannot be too wet for the first time. If you are a bit adventurous, ask you partner to give you cunnilingus, and if you can, give to your partner some fellatio. These are wonderful signs of showing affection.

Getting into it.

Make sure after your foreplay (and perhaps fellatio) put on the condom if you haven’t already. The partner may make the first move to go directly into the standard missionary position. Bad idea. It is the worst position to lose your virginity. You are not in control, and it will be more painful and you cannot do anything but lay there and take it.

Instead, try the girl on top position. Here you are in control. Your vagina has never had anything in it before (like a penis) and it must accommodate it slowly…and it will.

If you are losing you hymen, you are the one determining the speed and pressure with which it occurs. You will not suffer, and if you are still not wet enough, you can apply some water-based vaginal lubricant (such as K-Y). The deed is soon done, and you can get down to thrusting.

At first, have your partner move without thrusting, just applying pressure while fully inserted in your vagina. As it begins to feel natural, you can your self start thrusting.

At this point you can change positions (assuming your partner has lasted) and go onto your back. However, do not settle for the simple missionary position, but tilt your pelvis slightly up, and ask your partner to suspend himself on his arms and not lay on you…this when thrusting will stimulate both your clitoris and G-spot.

There are a lot of variables here, but lose you virginity as we suggest, and you will have in your mind pleasant memories instead of feeling unfilled, or used.

Understanding Male Psychology – Why Ignoring Your Ex-Boyfriend Works

You’ve heard the same advice time and time again since the break up. You’re supposed to ignore your ex boyfriend if you want to get him back. At first glance it makes absolutely no sense at all. How in the world could ignoring a man make him decide that he wants you back? The opposite seems much more likely, doesn’t it? Internally you feel that right now would be the perfect time to pick up the phone to call your ex boyfriend and suggest you two try and work things out. But everyone is screaming at you to not do that. You’re confused, you feel desperate and you’re worried that you’re going to make a mistake that’s going to cost you the man you love. Before you do anything, you need a short and concise lesson in male psychology. There’s a very good reason why you should pay attention to those who tell you to forget your ex boyfriend’s phone number, address and place of work.

Right Now You’re Not in Control of Your Failed Relationship

After a break up the individual who is chasing their ex partner is not in control of the future of the relationship. As women we often wish we could live our lives in the pages of a romance novel. We imagine that moment when our ex boyfriend picks up the phone to say he can’t live another day without us. The problem is that in reality that’s not likely to happen if you’re chasing him non-stop. Your actions really do speak louder than your words in this scenario and your actions are screaming a message that loudly declares, “I’m desperate and I don’t care who knows it.”

He is completely in control of what happens next. If he chooses to ignore you, he knows instinctively that you’re just going to step up your efforts and pursue him even more. Essentially you’re telling him that the more he ignores you, the harder you’ll try. Your life revolves around him and that feeds his ego. Most men in this position aren’t quick to give their ex girlfriend the time of day because they want to see how far she’ll push herself in an effort to win him back.

You must shift the dynamic of the relationship so that you’re the one in control of the future. The best way to do that is to change your own behavior. You’ll actually be surprised at how quickly he’ll decide he wants you when he suddenly believes you no longer want him.

There’s More to Ignoring Your Ex Boyfriend Than Not Answering His Texts

One relationship changing error that many women make before they start no contact with their ex boyfriend is they tell him of their intentions in such a way that he realizes that it’s little more than a game. If you announce to your ex boyfriend that you’re no longer talking to him, and you do that while you’re overly emotional, he’s going to view it as a tactic to get him back. His competitive spirit will kick itself into overdrive and he’ll set out on his own course to ignore you. Before you know it, weeks or months will have passed and you’ll both be too stubborn to reach out to connect with the other.

You’re much better off just dropping off the face of the earth. The best advice you can follow is to decide one moment (now is good) that you’re not going to talk or try to try to your ex boyfriend again for at least a month. Don’t let anyone know that you’re doing this as mutual friends love to gossip and your ex boyfriend will once again realize you’re using no contact as a tool to remind him how much he needs you.

During the next month, try your best to shift your focus to something positive and enriching. It’s very tempting to sit and wallow in the memories of when you two were together but that’s not going to accomplish anything productive for you. This should be a month when you rediscover who you are, as a woman, and you get in touch with what you want out of life.

Redefine What Your Life Goals Are As You Distance Yourself From Your Ex

You’re in for a couple of welcome surprises when you do begin the journey of ignoring your ex boyfriend. First and foremost, you’re going to be shocked with how he responds. Typically a man will want a woman who no longer wants him. Once your ex boyfriend realizes that you’ve stopped your never-ending quest to regain his love and devotion, he’ll set out to recapture your heart. It’s amazing how that works. Men are notorious for wanting things in life that are just beyond their reach. When one of those things becomes an ex girlfriend, a man will kick his charm into high gear in an effort to win her back. Basically, if you take away the knowledge that you want him, he’ll start to question who you do want. Once that happens, he’ll come running back to you full force, trying to get you to explain to him what’s changed.

The other, more welcome, benefit of ignoring your ex boyfriend is you get to finally decide, in an emotionally uncluttered way, whether getting back together is actually something that you want or need. Things look and feel much different a month after the break up. Your emotions are settled, your future is less defined and you are open to a whole array of possibilities.

Giving yourself the opportunity to take a breath from your ex boyfriend is one of the best gifts you can possibly ever get. You will finally be able to decide what is best for you and whether reuniting with him is truly the best way to make all your romantic dreams come true.

Dry Penis – Major Causes, Symptoms and Best Treatment

Many men, of all ages, experience dry penis skin at some stage in their life, especially on the shaft and head of their penis. In fact, when dry penis skin presents itself, most men immediately believe the worst — they have contracted a STD or other illness from their partner or lover. This can, in many cases, lead to sexual anxiety between couples, with the condition becoming worse. It can also have an adverse affect on the sufferer’s self-confidence and sexual habits, as well as their sex life.

However, this need not be the case. In most instances, dry penis skin is directly related to how the skin of the penis is treated and cared for, especially before, during, and after sexual intercourse and masturbation.

Now, before moving on, it is important to clarify that there are many common and simply treated conditions for dry penile skin. These conditions can be rectified over time and will not cause the sufferer any long term damage. In fact, once the cause is found many dry penile skin conditions will clear up and allow the sufferer to enjoy a happy and fulfilling sex life, as they once did. Therefore, rather than letting dry penis skin become a problem, let’s look at some of the common causes, symptoms, and treatments of this condition.

Dry Penis Skin Causes

The most common cause of dry skin on the penis or a dry penis head is lack of care when masturbating or having sexual intercourse. The penis is delicate; its skin is softer than any other skin on the body and it has many nerve endings and capillaries. All of which make sex that much more pleasurable. Therefore, rubbing the penis against clothing, not using adequate lubrication when masturbating or having anal or vaginal sex, and coming into contact with genital stubble, can cause penile skin to dry and become flaky.

Other typical causes of dry penis skin include: allergies, dermatitis, psoriasis, eczema, and candida. On rare occasions, a STD may be responsible for making the penis skin dry, but usually other symptoms will become apparent.

Dry Penis Skin Symptoms

Dry penile skin may appear on the penis head and shaft after rough sexual activity. In addition, red patches and cracks may even become visible on the skin and the penis may be painful to touch.

Allergies, dermatitis, psoriasis, and eczema share similar symptoms, such as dry patches on penis that may be flaky and itchy. On occasions, the penis may feel as though it is hot and burning with visible inflammation. The skin may also crack and weep, and be itchy.

Apart from making the penis skin dry, candida causes the penis to become red, inflamed and itchy. In fact, the itch is so insatiable that it will be hard to ignore. A discharge from the eye of the penis may also be noticed.

Typically STDs have many other symptoms that make them stand out from common causes of dry penile skin. These include blisters, bumps, sores, unusual colored discharge from the eye of the penis, and an unpleasant odor and pain when urinating.

Dry Penis Skin Treatment

All of the penis skin conditions mentioned are treatable, though it will take time for the penis to heal and repair itself. This is why it is recommended to abstain from any sexual activity until the dry penile skin disappears. If it is suspected that rough sexual activity has made the penis skin dry then it is suggested that a penis specific creme, (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil), is used daily. This type of product protects the skin of the penis from damage, as it adequately moisturizes the skin and feeds the cells with vital nutrients that keep it optimal condition at all times.

If, after a week, no noticeable change in the condition of dry penis skin has been seen, or the symptoms indicate that more than rough sexual activity is making the penis skin dry, then it is recommended that medical advice be sought.

How to Have a Dominant Wife & Slave Husband Relationship

Fred wakes up every morning at 5:00AM. He takes care of the pets, exercises for a half hour and then makes coffee. At precisely 7:15AM he gently wakes his wife and gives her the coffee made just the way she likes it.

While she wakes up and enjoys her coffee, Fred gives her a massage starting at her feet and working up to her back and shoulders. Around 7:45AM Fred’s wife sits up and he hands her a pad and pencil. His wife writes down a list of chores that she wants Fred to do that day and then gets up. Once she is up, Fred makes the bed and then makes his wife breakfast, refreshing her coffee and getting her anything she needs.

After breakfast, Fred cleans up and starts with his day.

Fred lives his life as his wife’s slave, doing whatever she says and always putting her pleasure over his.

Is Fred happy? Do couples really live like this? What would possibly be the reason for this type of relationship?

A lot of men desire this type of relationship and approach their wives about it. Most women are a little shocked and confused by this. There are many advantages to this type of relationship and it can be very beneficial to both partners.

If this is interests you and you would like to try it, start by getting a little education. There is a lot of information on this type of relationship. Once you have learned about it, approach your spouse and talk to him or her about it. It’s important to stress the benefits for your spouse. Here is a list for each of you:

Benefits for the wife

– A loving and doting husband

– A husband that will help with household chores

– Endless back and foot massages

– Your sexual pleasure comes first

– More romance

Benefits for the husband

– More sexual excitement

– Increased energy and drive

– Calmer more focused

– More intense orgasms

– Get more done

– Much happier wife

A dominant wife/slave husband relationship is fun, interesting and exciting. Take it slow, have some fun and see the benefits for yourself.